Lose it dating
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Now, there are as many reasons why anyone might pull away from a budding, new relationship as there are stars in the sky.
At first, both are very chilled out, even if somewhat excited about each other. And all of the sudden, she’s thrown into an emotional space where she starts looking for signs. She’s suddenly throwing herself at him every chance she gets — even if it’s just emotionally.
A few more dates happen and it seems like a monogamous relationship might be on the horizon. He might respond favorably at first, but the more reassurance she needs and the more energy she starts pouring into the relationship, the more he feels the weight of her feelings bearing down on him.
He starts to feel cornered and withdraws even more. Because she doesn’t want to “scare him off” by seeming disinterested and might be secretly worried that she did something wrong, there’s another woman, or a combination of all — she responds even more enthusiastically to any contact he initiates.
This spirals as she senses his reluctance and launches into triage mode. She starts looking for even more reassurance in any form (the smallest emoticon tossed from him will do).